Bachelorette 5 episode 9 p4 of 10
February 15, 2010 by
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Final three guys in Maui, Hawaii **Property of ABC** Reid and Jiliian's date. Team Reid!!
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he obviousely is so into her…his body language tells it all…she shouldn’t make him say any more…he’s said enough anyway!
I think the entire premise of this show is unrealistic…I mean, really, who knows for sure that they want to spend the rest of their lives with someone after a few dates? However, I think there are exceptions. My husband and I met, fell in love and got engaged after only 2 and 1/2 months of knowing each other. And we got married a couple of months after that and we were doing the long distance thing…and that was 5 years ago. So it could happen, but it’s definitely not for everyone.
How can one rely on a person who is so indecisive? Unless Jillian wants to adopt Reid and educate him about what it means to be independent and how to take care about the other person. But I suspect that, to a certain extent, she wants to be taken care of. Reid didn’t have to do anything and was just enjoying the ride, and lack of responsibility could be a major reason why he liked it.
I agree with u about the part that Reid doesnt really have a problem with his her how he feels, just because he cant say I love you doesn’t mean he cant show his feelings!
Reid doesn’t have a problem showing her how he feels. He told her they were the best dates of his life! He kisses her over and over. He told her he is indecisive…she just doesn’t get it. He told her he is scared! What more does she want him to say? He shows her. He just doesn’t say he “loves her”. She even says that she is starting to fall in love, but is not in love! Why didn’t she just do him in the bubbles? She’s scared?
He’s such a little boy! He acts like he’s 18. Completely inept when it comes to relationships never mind COMMITMENT! I suspect that’s why he’s always been the ‘dumper’, not the ‘dumpee.’ He get scared and runs or dumps as the case may be. He can’t even articulate! Little boy Reid. Too bad really… He could have had a good thing but he’ll NEVER know.
YOU know that and I know that. He doesn’t?? Where the hell do you think he was going when he signed up for this? Uh, duh!!? B A C H E L O R E T T E say it with me. EVERYBODY NOW!
You know what at this point *I’m not asking why he’s reluctant to say “I love you” Of course I think we have already known who he is and I don’t think I have ever asked like “why he is reluctant”. Well anyways, whether you get what i’m saying or not is not important. The most important thing as of right now is Reid will be back and that’s all i care! Okay that’s it!
He only seems uncomfortable when he is being pressured to say he loves her & to propose After Only 5 Dates. In NO other situations does he act shy & uncomfortable. Overall I think he is outgoing, brave & a real people person.
she is being unfair because she is forcing him to say something that he is not ready to say. I’m gone agree to disagree because I don’t think it has nuttin 2 do wit confidence. Some ppl just dont throw those 3 words around. She is dating two other men and the situation is totally not normal if u dont understand why he is reluctant to say it i cant help. And look at Bachelor/ette history how many ppl who were quick to say I love you r still together
that’s really attractive jillian, on a 5th date ask the guy if he is ready to propose…um, that’s a perfectly scary subject for men and women…50% of marriages end in divorce and 90% of the bachelor/bachelorette seasons end in a breakup.
lol!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I think Reid should try talking about himself in 3rd person. Maybe it would be easier for him, so he would not have to say I.
Great video. Thanks for doing this.
No offense, but I don’t see him shy or uncomfortable. He jut the type of person that doesn’t express what he’s truly feeling.
how’s jillian being *unfair? Well i don’t agree with you about “not being able 2 say has nothing to do with confidence”. Like so far in the rest of the episodes, if Reid is not being able to say *I love you or hestitate to say that, wouldn’t it be at least better if he has somekind of confidence? As for what you have said the rest, i’m not going to argue with you on that. Everyone has different perspectives and chooses to listen to different things.
Totally agree, i think she got over her head on. She probably had made up her mind by then.. cuz i think she was being unfair, perhaps Reid should have told her what she wants to hear and not the truth.
I repeat my comment from part 3
Dis whole settin is not normal U dnt travel around tda world 4 your first dates, erryting is rushed. Jillian is bein unfair knowin dat Xpressin his feelins is not who he is. Him not being able 2 say the wrds has nuttin 2 do wit confidence. I’m a very confident person & I’ve never told a guy I love em & its not bcuz I’ve never luv sum1. It’s so sad how ppl need 2 hear the words I LuV U. If sum1 is showin me dat they luv me fuck da words I dnt need 2 hear it. Actions shud B mre valuable dan words.
Thats just who he is, he said that he’s not the kind of person that says “I love you” right away, he takes to time to get around to saying that. He may be in love with her, but it tough to break his mold, you know?
OMG! I can’t believe that Reid is still afraid to say or express his feelings to Jillian at this point. I mean seriously at this point, i think he should at least have some confidence to say that he “loves” her right. And honestly I think Jillian has already tried her best to *push him. At the same time, it’s suck that Jillian chose to let Reid go even though Reid has already tried his best. But definitely he should really try harder! *But i guess what can he really do right!!